Oh, Behave! The "Oh, Just Elope" Edition

Sample letters copied directly from "The Lady's Guide to Perfect Gentility (1856)."

A lady to her friend, informing her of her intendend marriage, and engaging her as bridesmaid.
MY DEAR JANETTE;
You have witnessed the attentions which have so long been paid me by Mr. Weston, and are of course aware that he has addressed them to me as suitor. I can assure you it has not been without a very close scrutiny into his moral character, his temper, tastes, ideas, and habits, that I have come to the conclusion of being his partner in the wedded life. His disposition is always cheerful. I know him to be a man of the nicest honor, and rejoice to say, as I have hitherto found, that we seldom fail to coincide in our opinions; which shows, at least, that we are actuated by the same tastes. I have, therefore, ever reasonable prospect of enjoying happiness in the married state, for which I am convinced from your friendship to me, you will cheerfully offer me your congratulations.
The day of our union has at length been decided, and the mention of this brings me at once to the chief purport of my letter, which is that of inviting you to become my bridesmaid. Allow me to promise myself this favor. The last day of this month has been fixed upon as the auspicious day, upon which, if you have no other engagement, may I rely upon seeing you? An early reply, and if possible a favorable one, is the earnest wish of
Your affectionate friend,
Nellie Hart.